Women Being Safe in Online Chat Rooms

A lot of women come to me because they have problems in getting a new partner or with an existing partner. Those who are having problems in finding someone often turn to chat rooms and forums in the hope of finding someone there. Unfortunately a lot of them are quite naive and gullible and get fooled and drawn in by selfish guys who lie in order to try to get what they want.

Let us look at some of the facts. If a woman or someone pretending to be a female goes into a chat room there will be hundreds of guys asking her to chatter very quickly. If a guy goes there he will be lucky if he gets one offer and this would be from a gay man pretending to be female as women are not usually seeking chats and get so many asking them they do not need to look for people to ask.

Men can ring phone chat lines and pay for chats there so it stands to reason that they will try to get them for free online to save money, but there is nothing in this for the woman. There is also the fact that most men are looking to talk about sex or hoping to meet the woman and will steer the conversation around to her age, what she looks like, where she lives and sex if they can. When you are a female getting hundreds all asking you where you live and what you look like it is boring, predictable and a total waste of time. Women who really want to meet would go to a dating agency normally. It is safer and saves a lot of time.

Females tend to go online for a conversation while they are waiting for the pie to cook in the oven or the washing to finish it’s cycle, it does not mean that they are unhappy at home with husband or sexually frustrated or wanting to cheat. But men are often looking for a conversation because they are bored at home and wanting to chat about sexual matters, to relieve themselves, and if possible it would be even better to meet up. To the guys it is a fishing expedition, where they cast their net out and see who bites. The females are the fishes and got less reason to bite. Hence some of the men will offer them money to meet and others will get very nasty and angry when they refuse to meet.

In their effort to get the sexual chat or meets from the females the men will often lie, pretending to be single because so few women will consider meeting a married guy or a guy in a relationship. Pretending to be better looking or younger. Pretending to be rich and have pots of money they want to spend on her. In some cases you can tell that the guy is mentally ill or wanting to feel superior to women rather than wanting sex chat.

If you are a female wanting a chatter remember that many men lie, remember that a lot of the so called single guys are married or in a relationship and men who say their age are often older than they claim, many of them lie about their job and other circumstances. Most of all many lie about why they are asking to have a conversation with you.

Women being safe in online chat rooms is not just about not meeting, you should be able to meet if you want, but it is about not being eager to trust everything that people say and remembering that they are strangers with ulterior motives.

The worst that can happen is that you meet the wrong person and are raped or murdered or badly beaten up, maybe abducted and never seen again by those you love. But why put up with the best that can happen, which can be verbal abuse from someone you cannot trace or punish who thinks it is safe to be nasty to you when you refuse to Skype with them topless?

Facetime Sex – The Ultimate New Technology for Couples in Long Distance Relationships

Everyone has heard of Facetime by now. That TV ad with the grandfather saying hi to his grandkids, the dad in a hotel watching his baby boy smile and waving at him. Facetime has brought video phone to prime time by making them easy to use and completely free. What Apple’s TV ads fail to show are those lonely couples who have to painfully be apart from each other for long periods of time. Long distance relationships are hard, but Facetime might be a great tool to bring couples closer.

Lets admit it, we’ve all talked dirty or sent a naughty text message to our significant other at some point. On those late nights when you’re in both in bed, miles away, what could be better than to see them next to you. People have used Skype chat for years on their laptops, but clunky laptops are in the way, screensavers popup, and you’re in that uncomfortable position where your elbow is carrying all your weight. It’s not efficient. This is where the Smart Phones like the iPhone and Adroid phones come in handy.

Imagine being on your phone, the conversation gets a little naughty, you’re both in the mood, and that classic question pops up, “So.. what are you wearing?”. What if, you could actually show them with just a click of a button? Facetime makes that possible and super simple: Here’s how it works:

  • While on the phone call, new icon appears on the phone with a camera shape.
  • Click this icon
  • The other caller is asked if he/she will accept your request for Facetime
  • VoilĂ ! Your partner is on your phone screen and you appear on theirs.

We have interviewed hundreds of couples with iPhones and other smart phones. Many have said they’ve tried Facetime Sex chat and love it. Others say they haven’t but are very interested. The reality is that the technology is there. People just need to click on that icon and start using it. From those we interviewed, once they tried it they were hooked. Not only were they enjoying phone sex much more than before, they were having it more often!

Facetime Sex is the future of phone sex. Couples in long distance relationships should take advantage of it. We’ll launch an instructional video soon over at our blog soon to show you how easy it is and we’ll include some video tips from real couples who’ve tried it. If you don’t have an iPhone, you can also use Android phones and Mobile Skype. Our next set of articles will cover Android and Skype as an alternative.

How To Find Which Online Dating Site Is Right For You – Adult Dating And Sex Chat Rooms

Among the regular dating sites out there, for those who are concentrated for that romantic relationship, there are also sites for growing number of individuals, who are looking directly adult pleasures and are searching for other male and female contacts that have same interests. Marriage or committing to only one relationship is just not for everyone, some wish to look for multiple sex partners that they can find by finding and joining sites that have been created for this purpose. These sites often include Sex chat rooms also.

Sex chat rooms are good alternative for people who don’t want or can’t actually meet someone in person offline. These rooms can be a great and fast way to relieve stress, loneliness or boredom and one of the best ways to meet likeminded individuals, since these rooms are often related to one specific subject. What begins as a chat, can naturally lead to actual meeting. Many times this happens, even thick ice is easier to break first through the internet, and it can lead for very fruitful and pleasurable real-life relationships.

When you have a trust and feel comfortable with the person who you have met on the sex chat or via email and have agreed to get together, do it like this: Get together in a public place so that you can get to know the person first. I strongly recommend a zoo for obvious reasons. That’s the most romantic place in every city. Period. Zoo also brings out the best and the worst from every human being so it’s a great place to start or end relationships. Then, if there seems to be attraction between you and your new friend, it’s time to get creative and start your fun together.

The main benefit of adult dating sites is that they are very straightforward. What I mean by this is that it’s a fair game. As mentioned earlier, there are lots of people out there, who are not looking for serious commitments, like marriage, from their dating activities. They are looking for sex instead. People who join adult dating services know this. For example: Mary Smith joins some matchmaking site for finding that special one. It is clearly not an adult dating service, but more like a site for people who are looking for a steady long term relationships or marriage. It is not fair when John Horseman357 replies to Mary promising marriage with children just to get her to his bed.

I think that because of the increasing popularity of adult dating sites and online sex chat rooms, the problem described above is decreasing. That is a great thing! Feelings don’t get hurt, and people are able to find what they are looking for more easily and effectively.

Sex, Kids, and Communication Survival

Let’s talk about sex. Yep, I thought that would get your attention. It sure got mine when my son in Jr. high school started asking me VERY specific questions about this subject last night! My first reaction was to give him some blanket answers and tell him he will “figure it out” or “find out when he’s a little older.” But then, as I was trying to keep a straight face, I began to see past the words and the uncomfortable subject into a face of wonder, amazement, and confusion. My son was trusting me to give him the truth. He was opening up to me and asking me to provide real life answers to things he must encounter in his world. What an honor!

I am continually amazed how much I can handle in my everyday life by choosing which part I look at. Of course I don’t exactly enjoy answering these embarrassing questions and explaining what some things are (and aren’t…you would be AMAZED what the minds of Jr. high boys can conjure up!!!!) But let me tell you, sitting there on that porch step with my son, I felt so grateful to have a close enough relationship with him that he opened up his little heart and listened to his mom.

After about an hour of honest answers to questions I cannot bear to repeat, the little sex chat ended with a hug and a big thank you from my baby boy who seems to be growing up too fast. He was so relieved to have the truth. He no longer had to lay in his bed at night and wonder what to believe and if he was bad to even be thinking about these things. The bottom line is, if we embrace the moment for what it is (uncomfortable or not) and choose to see the good, every situation holds an opportunity to love more and fear less— even when we’re talking to our kids about sex! So when you find yourself in this uncomfortable situation as a parent, just remember, 1) You don’t have to have the perfect answer or say everything right 2) This is a great bonding opportunity if you look at it as such 3) Try to keep a straight face and the GASPs to a minimum!